Being a churchgoing Catholic Christian has an almost infinite number of advantages; one in particular appeals to me greatly right now:
I know of about half a dozen people who don't like me or want nothing to do with me. Now this is somewhat sad, I admit, BUT --
I don't need their permission to forgive them or pray for them.
I don't need their permission to ask God to show me how I may have offended them so I can ask them to forgive me.
So I get the last word! . . . or, if you will, the last laugh. :-)